Path to Individuality

Aping the best, may give a feeling of satisfaction but it ends the originality. As manipulation has no limits, it’s good to explore the underneath. It needs the understanding of the origin, it needs the scrutiny of the priority. But as time is considered as the only deciding factor, aping becomes the only option. The problem is somebody else decides the time and we call them experienced ones. But experience is gained from living up to one's own decisions. Decisions are probably the best options chosen in any particular circumstances. However, here comes the root, how circumstances are created? Whether its own selves or the people who were around that particular options? Well, it doesn’t matter who is responsible because in every case you were involved- a body, a mind. Though there were pressure, though there were obligations, it was you who took that decision, because, people around you can only influence you, but can’t take decision on your part. The time you stop blaming or giving credit to people for the circumstances, aping automatically gets off and true individuality emerges. There might be people who can crush you off for your individuality and if the path to individuality suffers the good way out is backup of immense thought to what ever you are doing or not a single explanation, which comes only when you do what you always wanted to do. Since, childhood we have been pressurized to ape the best, as no body had the guts to ask their kids to do something diverse. Yearn for success from an infant comes even before it comes out of the womb. So it’s clear that the sand clock is inverted as soon as you enter in this world. We never get time to think what we want to do and till the time we realize it, we are already surrounded by commitments and bulk of immature decisions. It’s like coming back to origin and thinking what should be done to sustain between billions of influencers. But, it is never late to think for yourself, your mind, your body, your soul. May be the time is less for you to take any decision, but this might be the best time to think apart and original. The decision might not end to any unconventional option, but, route to any unconventional have been through the obvious ones.

Still they show me the way. . . .

They are followers, they are lost, they do things just because they are told to do it and always judge themselves and others on the parameters which others have set for them. Everybody thinks they are better because they do things in a much better way from others but don’t think whether they are required to do that?

They never bother to think about themselves or about their own likes and dislikes. Even for their likes and dislikes they turn towards everybody and ask them, can I like this? Because they don’t want to break the parameters set by their ancestors and others, and if anybody amongst them wants to do something different or even wish to do something different they conclude that wish in few negative sentences because in their dictionary that wish is not mentioned and hence they are unable to judge it. They think they are good at judging and they judge because for them things are either right or wrong. They have predefined conclusion for everything, for every thought, for every dream. They are scared of changes but claims to be open for changes. Even they have definition for changes. If anybody does same thing in different manner is a change for them but if anybody wants to do new things in his own manners is not accepted by them and again they are ready with their judgments.

Everybody thinks he is a leader but becomes slave wherever they see materialistic profit. They donate to gain profits but again from that they want to fulfill their spiritualism. They need a materialistic approach even for spiritual thoughts. They say- worship and you ill get money, luxury and women. If anybody does anything for his/her own-self they have a term for it called selfishness. Though everybody is selfish in their own way but they think selfishness is a negative thought to accept and nobody should be selfish.

They develop a thought which is an obvious emergence of their predetermined parameters, till here its well and good, but now they want to impose that thought on others and if it is contradicted they will force others to follow through every violent or non-violent approach.

Everybody is leader but still they want a leader

All you can do is make your own world within you and don’t explain it. Generalize it if you wish others to live in it, personalize it if you wish peace in it.